As such, another conversation that I also have with my clients is to make them absolutely aware that behavior is not a “straight” line but more of a fluctuating experience. Once again, the same can be said about us: consistency eludes us and we have the bigger brain. :)
Slice of Life is inspired by the desire and challenge of living our lives in the moment. Days go by, weeks go by, years... but we can still choose over and over again to look at our own lives in small installments. These installments (or slices of life) can be walks taken in the hills, naps or a glass of Rioja. For me, what makes my slices super meaningful is being able to share with others the moments of my day with dogs in play, training or napping where we're all piled up on the bed.
My slices of life are full of events and experiences that are meaningful to me. As a former professional photographer, I still “see” so many pictures (or vignettes) as I interact with my dogs and the world around me on a daily basis. Most of the time I am not capturing these moments with a camera anymore. Instead, I am just showing up... I must say, that I do miss having a register of events outside of my head so that at my leisure I can relish a past moment as I am transported by a visual or written recollection of days gone by.
With the immediacy of all things digital, perhaps I can have my cake and eat it too. I can continue to do my work as a dog trainer and also register here and there moments of living a life in the company of dogs. I hope you will occasionally take a peek, and that my slices of life transport you in a glee of YOUR own!
Monday, December 14, 2015
Have We Reached Success in Training?
As such, another conversation that I also have with my clients is to make them absolutely aware that behavior is not a “straight” line but more of a fluctuating experience. Once again, the same can be said about us: consistency eludes us and we have the bigger brain. :)
Monday, October 5, 2015
Does Punishment Work? Part 2
I am writing about this important topic because I realize that people are punishing their dogs. What’s even more heartbreaking is that most people, and a large number of professionals, do not understand how to effectively apply punishment which also makes it even more cruel for the animal *(&^^)%$#.
I strongly suggest that if you are going to use punishment with your dog, you invest the time and energy to learn how to do so! And as you will see it is not that simple… The rendition below is based on the Science of Animal Learning. It is not speculation, wishful thinking, and bleeding-heart thinking. Instead, it is based on many, many studies and experimentations on animals and their learning. Some of these experiments were so unethical that they are not allowed to take place in the name of science anymore!
Conditions of Effective & more humane (?) - You decide Punishment:
- Punishment should be a learning tool and not a means of revenge. If your dog is not learning as a result of using fear, pain or intimidation then it is not really punishment it is callous revenge.
- Punishment MUST be initially SEVERE. Let me say that again, PUNISHMENT MUST BE INITIALLY SEVERE. Yes, I know, all those shock related products advocate for starting “small” and increasing the shock or whatever mechanism is being used to inflict pain, discomfort etc. as needed. But what these manufactures do not understand (or fail to report - as the case might be) is that this is not how punishment works.
The rationale behind this is that punishment should be strong enough to create an impression on the dog. It hurts so much, scared so much that the dog chooses not to engage in “x” behavior for fear of being hurt again, etc.
In other words, the behavior we choose to modify has been suppressed.
Now, here is the rub: Very few individuals (yes, unfortunately they are quite a few cruel people out there :() will not have the stomach to really use severe punishment. And, even if the person really is trying to help the dog by applying this rule of learning, we are left with another practical and ethical conundrum: How strong is strong enough? How can we measure this?
If less severe tactics are employed, in the name of being humane, the problem is that the behavior will not be suppressed long-term.
Another interesting twist to this dilemma is the fact that some animals will adapt to pain… so here we have to crank the pain outlet even more. Ouch! Real ouch!
Thirdly, when an owner produces a mild punisher, the response as discussed above will be lukewarm but it might be present, which in turns reinforces the owner to continue to punish the dog. What a sad life for both of them…
The presentation of punishment should be timely. Any delay in this presentation will be ineffective.
Consequences must be presented immediately and as a consequence for behavior in order for a dog to learn to link these two events together. Again, failing on this will not only constitute lack of learning, (suppression of behavior) but frankly how unfair can this be! The dog has no idea why he is being mistreated. So in choosing a punisher, we must consider the immediacy of the delivery. This is at the crux of fair/correct use of punishment.
The punishment must happen EVERY-SINGLE-TIME-THE-DOG-ENGAGES-IN-THE-BEHAVIOR… good luck with that! Last time I checked people in general have such a difficult time being consistent with anything. To put this one differently: The more times the behavior is followed by a punisher, the less likely the behavior will occur - the dog has learned something.
The punisher is always part of the punishing process. It is very difficult to separate the pain, etc. from who is delivering the blow. So bad news for the owner because most likely the dog will become to associate him or her with pain, fear, etc. (This is, of course, thanks to classical conditioning or associative learning - one of the most powerful ways of learning for creatures).
The punishment rarely teaches the dog an alternative. I HATE this! So the animal is getting hurt but does not know what to do instead. Oh, how very wrong!! The moral of this one point is to make sure we give the dog an out. We teach her what she can do instead to save her skin from pain.
Last, a very real and cruel result of using aversives to teach animals is that it is quite possible to end up with an animal that does not “behave” because it has learned - if punishment is not elegantly applied, that behavior produces pain and there is no sure way of escaping it. What is even more troubling is that many owners want a dog that does not behave. The animal’s joie de vivre gone!
I sure hope that writing about this topic makes people think many, many times prior to taking the “easy” (easy for whom?) way out.
Remember: Before you expect your dog to learn something ASAP, be honest with yourself about how painstaking it is to learn new stuff or go about making meaningful long lasting changes to your behavior. As such, let’s hope that we practice empathy for our dog's learning curves -especially when it comes to emotional issues (anxiety, fear) that are truly out of our dog’s control.
Monday, August 6, 2012
Do you really love me? Does it matter?
We work on these exercises three times a week – similarly to a person going to a gym religiously. Her sessions of course are much shorter and she does not have to wear the ultimate in sports attire.
For the most part we work in the garage where I have a series of props and we move from one exercise to the next swiftly: me paying attention to the placement of her paws, her gait and balance, the wagging of her tail with open grin and making sure she gets treated for almost every well performed rep. A few weeks back, I started working with her on the same exercises outside. We make use of the natural terrain that is soft on the joints yet it represents a challenge because it is on an incline.
The sessions go like this: I work with Deuce - our young and energetic border collie on impulse control in a high-intensity game of whippet. If you have no idea what a whippet game is… stay tuned…. as I will write on this fantastic training tool/game in a future post. While Deuce relaxes and catches his breath, Laika and I work on her routine. A few days ago, as I launched her treat for her to “find” she remained with nose glued to the ground in a hopeful search for another treat. I called her after a few seconds to no avail. As I stood on our exercise “hill” the question: “do you love me”? popped into my head.
Well, then if you love me you would mind me and come rushing to our exciting game/practice…. If you love me more than a piece of kibble you would…Really? Does it matter if my dog loves me? Yes! It matters to my ego and to whatever motherly instincts I have (all of course directed towards four legged species- that is just my speed).
From the perspective of behavior and behavior modification however, my question is a moot point! It really matters little if my dogs love me because what really governs behavior (any behavior: our dogs, yours or mine) is MOTIVATION.
I have had more than one client feel somewhat embarrassed when after expressing (just like me) their desire to be loved by their pets followed by me telling them (as gently as I can) that it really does not matter if their dog loves them. In other words: to give up on the need to be loved by their dog!
Motivation should not be an undesirable “dirty” concept in our minds. It is actually natural – that is it is evolutionarily advantageous for any animal (yes, us too) to act out of sheer self-interest.
What is even more fascinating is that the motivation my dog can have at a given moment; including her lack of interest in our joint practice has so little to do with the wonderful, warm and fulfilling relationship we have.
Now take note: while I have let go of wanting my dogs to love me with adoration, I do want my dogs to trust me! I want them to feel safe and “know” that I will do anything in my power to protect them, meet their true needs and give them a break when their motivation is not 100 % in line with mine.
Does it matter that you love me? No, but it is sure nice to think of the possibility…


