Slice of Life is inspired by the desire and challenge of living our lives in the moment. Days go by, weeks go by, years... but we can still choose over and over again to look at our own lives in small installments. These installments (or slices of life) can be walks taken in the hills, naps or a glass of Rioja. For me, what makes my slices super meaningful is being able to share with others the moments of my day with dogs in play, training or napping where we're all piled up on the bed.

My slices of life are full of events and experiences that are meaningful to me. As a former professional photographer, I still “see” so many pictures (or vignettes) as I interact with my dogs and the world around me on a daily basis. Most of the time I am not capturing these moments with a camera anymore. Instead, I am just showing up... I must say, that I do miss having a register of events outside of my head so that at my leisure I can relish a past moment as I am transported by a visual or written recollection of days gone by.

With the immediacy of all things digital, perhaps I can have my cake and eat it too. I can continue to do my work as a dog trainer and also register here and there moments of living a life in the company of dogs. I hope you will occasionally take a peek, and that my slices of life transport you in a glee of YOUR own!

Showing posts with label doggy daycare. Show all posts
Showing posts with label doggy daycare. Show all posts

Monday, October 24, 2016

Beyond doggy daycare

As a follow up to last week’s post, I want to share some ideas for keeping your dog’s life interesting and engaging. This is a really dear topic/issue for me.  I get such joy in knowing that dogs are having fabulous lives and on the other hand it pains me deeply when they don’t.

A bit about engagement and the importance of this: I have been part of a women’s only hard-core exercise group.  We meet 3 times a week at 6am to workout really hard. I have been a member for 4 years now and frankly I cannot to its full extent explain what about this group is so fundamental to my well-being. I was pressed once as I told Jim, our fierce yet nice leader, that I thought the workout that morning was a “7” in a scale of 1-10.  We all have laughs at the “grades” given. A member asked me why I have given the workout a “7” because it had been really hard.  I thought about this and I told her that it was a “7” in the “fun” scale because it had been very engaging.

Ah! I discovered something really meaningful for me: engagement = fun. That, ladies and gents IS my definition of fun. Anything that keeps me engaged is fun for me. Now, it happens that it is not only me that seeks engagement and thrives when engaged.

Apparently research in neuroscience confirms my experience.  Perhaps there are other disciplines that have found the same. I don’t know.  My understanding of this comes from neuroscience - more precisely named “Affective Neuroscience” by Jaak Panksepp, a neuroscientist from Washington State University. Here is a link where you can learn more about him. https://ipn.vetmed.wsu.edu/people/faculty-ipn/panksepp-j

This man is one of my heroes.  Not only because of his kindness for animals but because I consider his findings about emotion (in animals) and play to be so central to what interests me in my work with my dogs and my client’s dogs.

Dr. Panksepp explains how the mammalian brain- that is, the most advance “part” of the brain in - you guessed it, all mammals is composed of several “systems.”

One of them is the Seeking system.  In a nutshell, this system is the foundation for animals searching for food, shelter and for “engagement” in the form of sex, pleasure (say for life- not only sexual). He explains that the more an animal, is free of fear the more the individual will be able to engage in Seeking. What's more: Fear and play (or seeking) are in-comm-pa-ta-ble!   As you can hopefully appreciate engagement with one’s environment is truly central to a good quality of life. How then can we not provide opportunities for engaging to the dogs (and other animals) in our care?

I realize we are all so busy, drained, lacking in money- or at least that is the narrative we choose to believe, people!   But consider the following:  We get to decide - to a greater or lesser extent how we spend our time, our energy and other resources such as money. So in essence, we can all take a hard look and find ways- even if small so that the needs of our beloved dogs become central to our lives together.

Following are some ideas that will hopefully (and joyfully) help you in making your dog’s quality of life a top priority.

1. Plan ahead:
Instead of throwing together something for the dog to do while alone for hrs. or to not even consider this, plan ahead, just like one would plan the meals for the upcoming  week on a Sunday evening.

Decide for example for every morning, mid-day and the evening the following:
What kind of activity will my dog be engaged in: (ball throwing, walk peppered with sniffing and some obedience training, frisbee throwing, doggy day care, food-dispensing toys etc.)
Who will be in charge: Family member or hired professional?
What, if anything, is needed for the activity: Have it ready the night before.  If using food dispensing toys prepare them the night before (and if required keep in fridge) so that you are not hustling in the am.

2. Mix and match:
Give your dog at least 1 activity for physical benefit twice a day.  Same for mental stimulation.
So your dog’s wellness calendar will look something like this:
Monday Am:
20 min. ball tossing in backyard
Kongs when leaving for work

Mid-day:
Walk with hired professional
A snacky-snack (small meal, which has been considered as the daily caloric amount for your dog) such as a couple of sardines or a boiled egg in a Kong that your walker will give your dog upon departure.

After work:
15 min. of playing with the whippet (a toy attached to a pole that your dog chases around for lots of fun) or tug
3, minutes of clicker training


Tuesday:
AM
20 min of whippet in backyard after fetching the newspaper from the front yard
A different food dispensing toy

Mid-day:
Come home for lunch, hang out in back yard, and deliver a snaky snack before departing back to work

Evening:
Training class with family and dog

You get the idea!  Now think about this, the more activities you and your dog enjoy doing together the more variety for the both of you. There is however, nothing wrong with repeating some activities if you both really love them but do add some variety since everyone likes some variety in life.

I suggest you give your dog some kind of chewy (see previous post on chew bones) daily, unless your vet thinks differently.

Some of my favorite things for dogs to do are: clicker training. So much fun and so good for dog’s brain. See: www.clickertraining.com, food dispensing toys of all kinds, sports such as frisbee throwing, tug, whippet, “soccer” training for agility, sheep-herding with my border collie, dissecting games for Rio when supervised, chews of different kinds, brushing their coats while taking turns dispensing the dog treats for either being brushed or waiting their turn, walks in downtown Santa Fe, going to Home Depot (no kidding- and don’t ask me why my dogs love this!) having our friends over for a meal or glass of wine.

Our dogs love human company, riding bikes with dogs attached safely to the bike. One dog per bike.  Snowshoeing in winter on or off leash.
I am now teaching my dogs to go up a step ladder so that I can begin some sort of water conditioning in our hot-tub… we will see how this works out. If it does not (too much doggy hair in the filter) then I will come up with plan “b”.
Of course not every dog will enjoy the same things, have such a zest for play - as mine do etc.  But the truth is that playing is vital to a quality of life (again see Panksepp, Marc Bekoff, Karen London) but it is also true, that it is something we must nurture in our lives and the lives of our pets.

My intent here is to inspire you to be creative in finding all sorts of ways by which your dog will have a life full of “8” and above activities. (On a scale from 1 -10 :))

Moreover, if your dog is old or the shy type, do not lose heart!  Challenge yourself in finding things your particular dog can do and do not give up.  Some of us need to “work” harder at playing  but it does not mean that dogs cannot learn to engage in inspiring activities and when they learn to  do, watch their confidence and joy soar.

Monday, October 17, 2016

Should your dog attend day care?

Doggie daycares are the rave these days.  As with any service, the quality of the establishment can vary to very good (really hard to pull off) to terrible. Personally I do not see doggie daycares as the solution to dog home alone. I think some dogs can benefit from attending a *reputable* daycare perhaps once or twice a week and hopefully not for the whole day. Of course, every dog is different but trust me, few and far in between really enjoy daycare as much as their people think they do.

For most it is way too much mental stimulation, this reason and not necessarily all the fun play that goes on is why dogs come home exhausted from daycare. Some young dogs really might enjoy the company of their pals and they might even engage in play thru the day.  However, running a good day care is not a simple enterprise.

There are many reasons for this, but here are the main ones as I see them:
1. In order to be profitable daycares must have a sizable amount of dogs attending.  The more dogs the higher the chances for scraps between dogs, sanitation issues and management issues.
2. Staff that is barely knowledgeable in dog ethology and behavior. Staff that has really outdated information such as the “alpha” model which is so 1950’s and so not good for dogs - topic for another post.
3. Owners not being well informed about what to look for and having unrealistic expectations about the place or how much their dog truly enjoys being there.

I am not saying that no dogs should go to doggie daycare. However, what I am saying is that if you think your dog will enjoy the company of other dogs on a regular basis, I encourage you to really do your homework and arm yourself with some good information before signing and dropping off your pup to daycare. Below is a list of things to look for and questions to ask.

Go by and see if you like the place:
Is it clean in appearance? Does it smell too strong on elimination?
How do they screen for dogs?
What is their policy for dogs that are not neutered or spayed?
How about puppies? At what age are they admitted and are they mixed-in with the adult population? If so, at what age?
What are the dogs actually doing? Hanging out? Playing? Or they are constantly stopped the minute they try to engage in play?

How many people are actually with the dogs?
How many dogs attend when the day care is at full capacity?
Are they divided by sizes?
Ask them about their person to dog ratio. Which means: How many people are watching and managing dog interactions per number of dogs attending at a given time.
What kind of “enrichment” activities they have for the dogs?
Ask: Who walks the dogs? Where? Will they make absolutely sure to not allow your dog to pull on leash?

How do they deal with potential fights? Believe me there will be fights. Here again it depends on how many fights take place on a regular basis and how they handle the fights that can tell you quite a bit about the reputability of the place.

Who will pay for the vet bill should your dog get into a fight and needs medical attention?
How do they notify about the fight or any other potential problem?

I have had my client’s dogs attending local daycares where their dog came home bleeding, but no one mentioned anything to them.  When they called about it the daycare did not even offer to be responsible for the vet bills.  Pathetic!

I have also known of “good” daycares that have had a dog in their care escape while on their premises… sigh.  The dog was eventually found.

More questions to ask:
Do they separate dogs by size? Age? Etc.

What kind of feedback or information will you get about your dog when picking him up?
Ask about possible professional certifications if they mention or offer any training whatsoever? Loving dogs a lot and having had dogs since an "early-age” is not a professional qualification or certification!

If and when you are satisfied with the answers given above and the physical inspection of the place, go and drop by without your dog on a given day. If the facility has nothing to hide they will not mind you doing this. If they do, think twice about leaving your pup.

If you end up dropping your dog off, observe if the next time he is being dropped off he appears “happy” to go back or instead he appears upset: panting, not wanting to go inside, etc.  For this test you will need to be able to abort the mission and take your dog back home etc. so it's important to plan ahead.

Of course, some dogs might just be nervous because they lack the experience and confidence of being left behind at first. Similarly to kiddos and kindergarten. This is again a judgment call.  If your dog just lacks the confidence but the daycare is a good one, your pup will eventually (3-5 visits) come out of his shell. If he does not, leaving him behind in my professional opinion is frankly kind of cruel.

At the end of the day, the best advice is to follow your gut instinct and do your homework!  Ask as many questions for you to be comfortable with the place.

Remember: Your dog needs you to advocate for him.

By this I mean, that your dog’s interest and well-being must be taking into consideration.
Next week I will offer some suggestions for making sure your pup gets to hang out with other dogs, other people and get some needed mental stimulation and exercise when being left alone for the day, so stay tuned!