Slice of Life is inspired by the desire and challenge of living our lives in the moment. Days go by, weeks go by, years... but we can still choose over and over again to look at our own lives in small installments. These installments (or slices of life) can be walks taken in the hills, naps or a glass of Rioja. For me, what makes my slices super meaningful is being able to share with others the moments of my day with dogs in play, training or napping where we're all piled up on the bed.

My slices of life are full of events and experiences that are meaningful to me. As a former professional photographer, I still “see” so many pictures (or vignettes) as I interact with my dogs and the world around me on a daily basis. Most of the time I am not capturing these moments with a camera anymore. Instead, I am just showing up... I must say, that I do miss having a register of events outside of my head so that at my leisure I can relish a past moment as I am transported by a visual or written recollection of days gone by.

With the immediacy of all things digital, perhaps I can have my cake and eat it too. I can continue to do my work as a dog trainer and also register here and there moments of living a life in the company of dogs. I hope you will occasionally take a peek, and that my slices of life transport you in a glee of YOUR own!

Monday, August 27, 2012

Jot It Down…

And see your training take place! Any good business coach would advise that if you write down what you want to get done the likelihood of that taking place would be higher.

I for one have put this to the test many times and found that it is so true.

The time has come to move onward with Deuce and his overall training now that he has had ample time to get used to his new family and surroundings. Since I have two dogs that are both active but have different learning styles and needs, I carefully plan their training sessions.



Deuce because of his personality – being the “mellow” one is "destined” to help me with my classes. He can handle being in close proximity of other dogs such as in a class setting - something Laika has difficulty doing. Because of this and because he is full of energy, I work with Deuce on very specific tasks so that I can demo  in class as needed.

We also have weekly training sessions where the focus is on either improving his loose leash manners (he was pretty awful!) to him learning to bring the ball back to me when we are playing soccer. In true Border Collie fashion, he is more interested in chasing after a moving ball than acting as a retriever. Now, if you wanted a Retriever why did you get a Border Collie - this is his question. The good news, is that (finally!) I came up with a training plan that is teaching him to bring the ball closer to me and lay down before I can kick it back again to him.

With Laika, the training sessions are more focused on mental stimulation, rehab. of her hind legs. I am adding to this list some specific training sessions where she gets to make noise and is reinforced for it. Laika is big time afraid of thunder. She can also be startled with frequency with other fastidious noises such as me trying to swat at a fly or the vacuum cleaner. The goal of these sessions is for her to learn that noises such as the ones above are not so bad. Since she can have more control over her (noisy) environment during these sessions/games she will become more confident and able to deal with noises with more aplomb.
The reality is that regardless of my goals for my dogs, they need fun and mental stimulation, less anxiety over noise, bringing the ball back etc. It is much better to carefully plan every session prior to the session taking place and to engage in them on a regular basis. The sessions are not really that long. I might play soccer with Deuce for 10-15 minutes doubling up with great physical stimulation for him, but sessions are normally 5 minutes long – which in most cases that is plenty of learning time for a dog.

Designing and jotting down the sessions on a weekly basis has worked very nicely for me and I think also for both of my dogs …. What I do is plan the sessions and writing down on Sunday what the week of training will look like. For example, this week our training calendar looked like this:

Note: depending on my workload they might get one or two “formal” sessions a day in addition to other mental and physical stimulation activities.

Monday:

Deuce and Laika: Morning hike- practice recall (come when called) with Deuce and lay down as we hike around the hills near our home.

Late afternoon:
Deuce: Whippet- impulse control and lay down on verbal cue
Laika: Foraging for her dinner and impulse control… stop chasing Deuce as he goes after the whippet!!!

Tuesday:
Laika: Breakfast filled inside Kongs in the outside a pen-adjacent to our “soccer” field.

Deuce: Soccer - work on him bringing the ball back to me and laying down before me kicking the ball again.

Laika: Leisure hike and a few rounds of cavalletti to make her gait more fluid while Deuce eats his breakfast out of Kongs.

Wednesday:
Sheepherding with both dogs!

Whippet for Deuce before dinner

Laika gets to hunt for her kibble

Thursday:
Soccer with Deuce and whippet (two of his top-ten activities in life!)

Laika eating out of Kongs - same set-up as Monday and working in her “gym”.

Friday:
Deuce goes to daycare to play as well as harasses his daycare buds Laika and I go out for a leisurely mother-daughter’s walk, which we do once a week.

Saturdays and Sundays:
We tend to take them for hikes or leashed walks plus providing some mental stimulation such as eating out of toys, playing “mouse” with kibble, a funky game of chase a cat toy or fuzz-ball soccer in the living room.

I have noticed that since I plan my training week for Laika and Deuce the following things have taken place:
1. Their training takes place – I reach my goals little by little.
2. They have rich, fun and stimulating lives. (how cool is that :)
3. I get to spend individual time with each one of my dogs and I love that.
4. I keep learning about their individual learning styles and where they need improvement.
5. I do not get stressed out or overwhelmed because I know exactly what needs to happen and when.

At the end of each day, they both lay quietly and happily chewing on a bully stick and I can chill too knowing exactly what my next day will look like and that is not too bad for a Virgo like me!

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