Slice of Life is inspired by the desire and challenge of living our lives in the moment. Days go by, weeks go by, years... but we can still choose over and over again to look at our own lives in small installments. These installments (or slices of life) can be walks taken in the hills, naps or a glass of Rioja. For me, what makes my slices super meaningful is being able to share with others the moments of my day with dogs in play, training or napping where we're all piled up on the bed.

My slices of life are full of events and experiences that are meaningful to me. As a former professional photographer, I still “see” so many pictures (or vignettes) as I interact with my dogs and the world around me on a daily basis. Most of the time I am not capturing these moments with a camera anymore. Instead, I am just showing up... I must say, that I do miss having a register of events outside of my head so that at my leisure I can relish a past moment as I am transported by a visual or written recollection of days gone by.

With the immediacy of all things digital, perhaps I can have my cake and eat it too. I can continue to do my work as a dog trainer and also register here and there moments of living a life in the company of dogs. I hope you will occasionally take a peek, and that my slices of life transport you in a glee of YOUR own!

Monday, June 27, 2016

What and When Questions Are Smart Questions When It Comes to Training


A few weeks back I wrote about the “why” questions: People love “why” questions. Perhaps because we are curious, because we think “why” questions help us understand our own dog better (which sometimes they do, of course!) but most of the time it's because we'd much rather our dog not do something and we think that by “knowing” the why he/she will not continue to do so.

Why questions, as I stated, are not very useful when it comes to animal behavior and training. The reason behind this- as a form of recap- is that why questions, while being interesting, seldom help us move in the right direction with our dog’s behavior and training.

So then, what kinds of questions should one ask in order to make changes in our own dog’s behavior?

“What” questions are really great starting points. As in “What is your dog doing that concerns you? Irritates you? Etc."

Answers to what questions are observable, and as such, specific.  For example: What is your dog’s response when a stranger reaches out to pet its head? Answer: Lowers the head, emits a low growl and moves away.



If someone were to give me the response above to my question of what is your dog doing… I would most definitively get a clear picture of the interaction between dog and stranger for this very specific action- the stranger reaching towards the dog’s head with the hand.

I am also getting a clear concrete “picture” of how the dog is responding to it. I might not know what the dog is thinking because nobody knows, but I can infer by the dog’s body language, distance increasing and growl that he does not want to be reached out by a stranger.

“When” questions are also very helpful because they tell us similarly to “what” questions under which specific circumstances the behavior is taking place. As I have stated before, behavior never happens in a vacuum so knowing the precise conditions will help in coming up with a plan of action and will very likely set up the scenario so that the dog does not continue to engage in the dangerous, unwanted behavior.

Here is an example: When would you like your dog to walk on a loose leash? The answer to this question might vary. When we are taking a walk in town, when going to and from the car, when your dog see other dogs also on leash. When is it okay for your dog to pull or walk on a taught leash? When we are practicing scent discrimination on leash or when we are practicing skijoring. An activity in which a dog is attached by a long line and is pulling you on a bike, sled, etc.

Finally, "what" questions are also critical in reaching and understanding of what we want the dog to do instead of what the dog is doing at present.

If we do not have a clear picture of what we want there is really no way that we can reach our goal of communicating clearly to the dog in what we want him to do instead.

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