Slice of Life is inspired by the desire and challenge of living our lives in the moment. Days go by, weeks go by, years... but we can still choose over and over again to look at our own lives in small installments. These installments (or slices of life) can be walks taken in the hills, naps or a glass of Rioja. For me, what makes my slices super meaningful is being able to share with others the moments of my day with dogs in play, training or napping where we're all piled up on the bed.

My slices of life are full of events and experiences that are meaningful to me. As a former professional photographer, I still “see” so many pictures (or vignettes) as I interact with my dogs and the world around me on a daily basis. Most of the time I am not capturing these moments with a camera anymore. Instead, I am just showing up... I must say, that I do miss having a register of events outside of my head so that at my leisure I can relish a past moment as I am transported by a visual or written recollection of days gone by.

With the immediacy of all things digital, perhaps I can have my cake and eat it too. I can continue to do my work as a dog trainer and also register here and there moments of living a life in the company of dogs. I hope you will occasionally take a peek, and that my slices of life transport you in a glee of YOUR own!

Showing posts with label growling. Show all posts
Showing posts with label growling. Show all posts

Monday, June 22, 2015

When to Intervene?

For some unknown reason Deuce’s guarding of certain objects, such as his precious ball, has gone up in frequency. I noticed just the other night that he began to vocalize in his typical high-pitched tone when he was lying on the couch next to me as Rio was cruising by. For the most part when this happens Rio gets the message as she slinks away or removes herself from the object diffusing the interaction. In other words, showing good doggie manners.

So the question is: When should one intervene in doggy-affairs and when should we allow them to “figure it out”? From my perspective, there are a few things to consider in order to make the correct decision. We must pay attention to what happened just before one of the dogs begins to communicate with the other that such and such thing is theirs to keep? Or, to notice what kind of resource is the coveted one and under what specific circumstances.

The second observation that I like to make is to ascertain the reaction of the dog at the receiving end of the threat. Specifically again, how is this dog responding?

Is he or she “getting the message”? Will choose to stand its ground? A potential dog fight as a result of this? Is the dog feeling emotionally “flatten”? If so, is their confidence diminishing? Since behavior never occurs in a vacuum, but instead it is always context specific looking at these details makes perfect sense.


Yes, it is also true that behavior is always in flux. I can see this so clearly when it comes to people forming habits. For example: someone watching a favorite show at dinnertime and now a new habit of eating while watching TV is born. Or hanging out with a particular person and suddenly we move on with our lives wondering why we spent so much time with this person or doing a particular activity.

I was pondering the above as Deuce growled at Rio when they were both eating their meal, which they done previously hundreds of times without incident. Now, Rio after hearing Deuce growling,  stopped eating and quietly exited the laundry room. I did not hear Deuce growl but it just took one look at Rio’s demeanor for me to realize Deuce had growled at her as she was chowing down her food.

What has changed in Deuce’s mind? Nothing seemed out of the ordinary nor have I seen any other changes in their relationship to warrant concern.

The truth is that at times the antecedents of a behavior are very obvious and sometimes they require close observation. At times too, we are not going to know what the motivation behind the behavior is- and this is the case with Deuce’s escalating his sometimes threatening display towards Rio while there are both minding their peas and eating their meals.

I decided to monitor their meals more closely to see if I could decipher what, if anything, is different for Deuce and to make sure that I had Rio’s back. So I stuck around once I lowered their food bowls and watched from the sidelines. If Deuce began to eat and they both appeared relaxed I moved on. But if this was not the case I would admonish Deuce and stick around until at least Rio was done with her meal.

A few days ago, I did hear Deuce emit a sound while they were both eating so I walked in the room and just stood behind Rio and in between both dogs. Rio was looking away from Deuce. I guess she felt my “support” because she continued to eat without missing a beat.

Deuce’s funny quirks might pass without a major incident, but it is also possible that it might escalate in which case I must re-think their eating habits.

The take-home message for me and I hope for everyone who has more than one dog (or more than one pet at home) is to constantly evaluate the status of the relationship between the pets and to be ready to make any changes so that all pets live as stress free as possible in their home. It is also much easier to keep things sailing smoothly than righting a relationship that has gone wrong.

I would argue that just like we can get into bad habits- such as eating our meals mindlessly in front of the TV, our dogs could get into behavioral patterns (are they also habits?). Of course, not all behavioral patterns are “bad” or undesirable. However, as the case might be, our jobs - as I see it, is to keep an eye  out for any change away from the “norm” and to make whatever adjustments are necessary (as easy as relocating a food-bowl or as complicated as engaging in behavior modification of some sort) so that the quality of life of the animals in our care is not compromised.

Monday, September 15, 2014

Absence of Behavior

I am at a social gathering and I'm talking to someone who just learned that I'm a professional dog trainer. He asks me if I can shed some light onto an incident with his Mastiff. He continues to relate how his Mastiff whom he has made sure received ample training (I don’t know where or what kind of training) growled at a friend his dog is familiar with as the friend was reaching over the dog in order to reach the cooler while they were camping.

He is baffled when he notices his dog is now also growling at a woman who approached him just minutes after the first incident. As I tell him that I can only speculate as to why his dog growled since I do not have much information on his dog, never met him and did not witness the incidents. He goes on to relate to me that his dog normally is friendly to people. He “will sit and wait” he tells me, as a person his dog is not familiar with approaches him.


I tell him again that there might be a myriad of reasons why his dog is just sitting as a person approaches him, but that I am not even sure his dog is that friendly! There is a difference, I assured him, between staying putt and wanting an interaction.

A dog that is truly friendly or interested in interacting with another dog or a person will approach the individual, not remain passive or worse, move away.

A dog approaching someone and, of course, depending on the dog’s body language and potential vocalization is a clear indication that the dog is interested in the interaction.

What we want to see is a dog that eagerly wants to interact. And the best telling sign for assessing this is the dog’s overall attitude (reflected in his body language & other forms of communication).

One wants to see a very loose body- not rigid musculature. The mouth is also relaxed and open instead of tight and closed.

The eyes are - you guess it, soft in their expression and blinking, instead of hard either darting from one spot to spot or staring at you.

Indeed, be careful of making a typical mistake of only “reading” the dog’s tail for signs of friendliness. The tail is one of the most misunderstood body parts in the repertoire of dog communication. Moreover, learn to get a quick read on the overall demeanor of the dog as a whole and then concentrate, if needed, on the message that specific body parts such as the mouth, eyes, facial expression, etc. are telegraphing.

On these same lines, I had an owner interested in bringing his puppy to my puppy class. On the class form he told me that his puppy is “so easy”: he does not bark, chew on household items and the like. Aah, I immediately saw this as a red flag. This is not normal dog behavior!

The moral of the story here is that a lack of behavior/behaving does not mean that the dog is, comfortable, not stressed or welcoming of affection and interaction.

As a matter of fact, there are circumstances in which a dog that is ready to aggress will really slow down its movements. Communication between our dogs and us is not a simple affair. It is actually complex and nuanced.

All beings behave and their behavior, of course, is a reflection on their interaction with
their environment at large, and is constantly changing and adapting. This is one example
where looking beyond the obvious will serve our animals in our care and us very well.