Slice of Life is inspired by the desire and challenge of living our lives in the moment. Days go by, weeks go by, years... but we can still choose over and over again to look at our own lives in small installments. These installments (or slices of life) can be walks taken in the hills, naps or a glass of Rioja. For me, what makes my slices super meaningful is being able to share with others the moments of my day with dogs in play, training or napping where we're all piled up on the bed.

My slices of life are full of events and experiences that are meaningful to me. As a former professional photographer, I still “see” so many pictures (or vignettes) as I interact with my dogs and the world around me on a daily basis. Most of the time I am not capturing these moments with a camera anymore. Instead, I am just showing up... I must say, that I do miss having a register of events outside of my head so that at my leisure I can relish a past moment as I am transported by a visual or written recollection of days gone by.

With the immediacy of all things digital, perhaps I can have my cake and eat it too. I can continue to do my work as a dog trainer and also register here and there moments of living a life in the company of dogs. I hope you will occasionally take a peek, and that my slices of life transport you in a glee of YOUR own!

Showing posts with label dog growl. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dog growl. Show all posts

Monday, December 28, 2015

Other Measures of Success

Previously I wrote about ways by which we could ascertain if a behavior modification plan is actually working in changing the targeted behavior. Today, I'd like to expand on another reliable way of knowing whether success has been reached or even if we are on the right track.

I recently met with a couple that had me come over because their dog is growling at them. Initially when talking to the husband over the phone, he described the incidents when their Basset Hound had growled at them. Once I got to their home and sat with both of them things began to unravel! As is often the case, the couple had different experiences and observations as to under which circumstances their dog was growling. And they even had very different expectations for their dog. In other words, what was acceptable about their dog’s behavior to one of them was not acceptable to the other at all!
We spent half of the Initial Consult identifying exactly when and how often their Basset Hound is growling at either one of them - yes, this is also a very possible variation: Different people = different relationship with the dog = different possible responses from the pup.

Because behavior is always fluctuating, sometimes it is really hard to be 100% about the specificity of triggers and the best way of maintaining the behavior in the first place.

I told the couple that they needed to have semi-private eyes. Their job for the next 10 days was to write exactly when and under what circumstances their dog growled. I need to know if during the ten day any of the triggers reported or potentially under other conditions their dog growled at either one of them.


We had identified the following triggers, which resulted in their dog growling in the past: hovering over the dog, petting the dog (body location not specified at this point) and lifting or touching his paws. I told them to avoid the triggers where their dog responded with a growl, and they both agreed.
For the next 10 days, they were instructed to write down on a ready-made form the below information. Each one of them had their own identical form as their experiences were different.

  1. What happened just before the dog growled? Where they walking towards the dog? Playing roughly? Cleaning the dog’s ears? When the dog was just waking up from a nap? Etc.
  2. Where did the behavior take place? When the dog was lying next to them? When they removed the food bowl or just prior to feeding? Etc.
  3. What did they do after the dog growled?
  4. How often did the dog growl at them?
  5. How did they feel when their dog growled at them?

Once we have identified with more certainty the specific circumstances under which their dog growls we can begin to work on each one of the triggers.

It is human nature to pile events under the same category - after all our brain is wired for looking for patterns - even if the patterns are really not there. Also, our memory is not as reliable as we think it is. Writing things down when they take place will reveal with much more accuracy what we are up against.

In addition, for this couple determining their own emotional reaction towards their dog when he growled at them was one big piece of the puzzle. When we write things down we can go back and look at them with more detachment. My job then is to suggest a behavior modification
plan that takes into consideration both perspectives and factual information so that we can move forward in helping them.
 

Monday, December 16, 2013

Dogs on Bed


I am getting ready to go to a training and I go into my bedroom and there he is, Deuce comfortably laying on our bed… ah, I say the life of dogs…

He looks so comfortable and I am happy to seeing him so content perhaps even feeling “safe”.

I hear much about if dogs should be on their owner’s bed and if they should sleep with them. Here are some things to consider:
1. Dog snores
2. Dog take too much of the bed (a deal killer for me)
3. Dog guards the bed, say the dog growls, sneers etc. when the real owner of the bed tries to approach the bed or is on the bed. Another deal breaker and one that must be worked on as it will not improve on its own.


In our household, we have it dialed in. No dogs sleep with us during the night, but they do have privileges of resting on every piece of furniture they might fit in and find comfortable. I decided that we need to face the fact that we share our lives and our home with dogs. Dogs are not human (or like some humans) who are obsessed with tidiness.

Part of my MO consists of relaxing a little since I realize that seeing my dogs lying comfortably on our bed is heart-warming - especially when I have to go to work and it is cold outside and I much rather watch some day TV or lay on my warm bed and…

I was sayin’: I wash the comforter cover often – just like the sheets, and I have protective covers for the sofas in the LR- problem solved! I can have a nice clean house and dogs that enjoy the human comforts.

Dogs are social creatures so sleeping with the rest of the group is really what they want. Never mind that Deuce gravitates between comfy (dog) bed in our room and his crate close by in my office.

Speaking of dog beds…. last night I went to bed early to read. Rioja followed me into the room and to my surprise went directly to the larger of the two dog beds (my mistake - wrong size on one of them!).

As I was wrapping up my evening routine, Rio “asked for permission” to jump on our bed. Permission granted.

She was now lying on our bed when Deuce came into the room to settle for the night. He marched to the larger dog bed and lay there oh so comfortably. Rio jumped off the people’s bed and went towards Deuce. She just stood there expecting (I guess) Deuce to get out of the ½ doughnut shaped bed with Deuce not even giving her a second look.

I am sitting on my bed amused, waiting to see what’s next.

Rioja climbed inside the bed and laid there with Deuce…

Deuce has his eyes closed- almost asleep. Clearly Rio did not find sharing the bed to her liking. I guess we both crave lots of space when sleeping.

Sorry Rio, you can’t have it both ways… you snooze you lose, no pun intended. I then invited her on my bed again knowing where she would spend the rest of the night once John came to bed: on the smallest dog bed. She came over and found her perfect place. I dosed off with Rio and Deuce both lying happily on some bed.