Slice of Life is inspired by the desire and challenge of living our lives in the moment. Days go by, weeks go by, years... but we can still choose over and over again to look at our own lives in small installments. These installments (or slices of life) can be walks taken in the hills, naps or a glass of Rioja. For me, what makes my slices super meaningful is being able to share with others the moments of my day with dogs in play, training or napping where we're all piled up on the bed.

My slices of life are full of events and experiences that are meaningful to me. As a former professional photographer, I still “see” so many pictures (or vignettes) as I interact with my dogs and the world around me on a daily basis. Most of the time I am not capturing these moments with a camera anymore. Instead, I am just showing up... I must say, that I do miss having a register of events outside of my head so that at my leisure I can relish a past moment as I am transported by a visual or written recollection of days gone by.

With the immediacy of all things digital, perhaps I can have my cake and eat it too. I can continue to do my work as a dog trainer and also register here and there moments of living a life in the company of dogs. I hope you will occasionally take a peek, and that my slices of life transport you in a glee of YOUR own!

Showing posts with label Walking dogs. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Walking dogs. Show all posts

Monday, July 30, 2012

About Husbands (Or Wives) and Going Back to Kindergarten

Once in a while I get a “day-off” from walking Laika and Deuce. This is great because my morning routine slows down. I can concentrate on doing some yoga or jumping full swing into emails or writing a post for my blogs.

A couple of days ago I got my “day off”.  John, my husband, along with the dogs in tow went out the door. With this arrangement, there is also another ritual that I perform: As John is walking in the door with happy dogs and in search for their water bowl, I ask: How did it go? It did not take long to condition John to respond with exactly the information I am looking for.

This morning his response was: back to kindergarten with Deuce. While I am not 100% surprised by his response, he now has my full attention (even in downward facing dog) and I ask that he elaborates. He replies, Deuce is getting in the habit of not listening and just darting towards the neighbor’s house so I am putting him on a leash now.


Mmmm, too bad I think, because as they were leaving that AM, I asked John to work with Deuce-who was being walked on an empty stomach – with his recall (called when call) using roasted chicken. I asked John if he had been able to practice any of this and his answer was: yes, I called him to me while he remained on the leash clicked and rewarded him for coming.

Ahh brilliant! I thought… this is what 12 years of marriage can do to your husband! What I mean is that John is NOT in the behavioral sciences (even though he has a very high emotional IQ :)) he is in the solar industry… way far from having to treats dogs for performing a requested behavior or understanding in depth-learning theory.

Okay, I get it. You might be more interested in why John is willing to work so hard with Deuce when that is what I do. And in addition he came up with such an appropriate way of teaching him what he must learn at this stage. The answer… to John and his willingness to adhere to MY program, deserves its own post so for now, I am going back to Deuce.

Back to Kindergarten (BTK) is a concept that I learned when I was getting my chops as a trainer at the San Francisco Academy for Dog Training. In essence, if the dog that you are training (or the precious border collie that is now YOUR dog) :) is in the acquisition stage of learning a new behavior and fails i.e.: has yet not fully learned what you want him to learn, you make things easier for him… you find a baby step that the dog can perform with accuracy so that you can reward that.

From that BTK step you begin to build once again a continuation of baby steps that will ensure that your dog will not only learn better, BUT it also it removes a lot of the stress and frustration the dog might experience if one is not careful and asks repetitively for behaviors that dog cannot perform consistently.

Since Deuce is an adolescent (and the clown of the family) he chooses to explore the wide-world in front of him instead of coming to John or myself when on our daily walks, it is important that we request his attention and that we set it up so that he can give it to us. For now his recall is from the length of the leash and off leash in only certain areas. We also pay big time attention to eye contact or waiting defined by: do not move forward from where you are.

Every day is a new opportunity for learning,  we must learn to be flexible with our dogs and acknowledge that today for this behavior I need to be smart, to be flexible and go back to kindergarten. Doing so takes know-how, understanding that tiny-steps will solidify a final behavior and LOTS of patience! Not bad for one day of learning!

Saturday, July 14, 2012

Duke Says: “I Want More” more walks, longer walks..

As we return from our walk and I am removing his collar and leash to start my work day, Duke looks up at me as if saying “I want more” more walks, longer walks, opportunities to smell and chase, just to hang out outside. I am thinking: dogs, just like us, want more, too! Then, I shift into trainer’s mode: How much exercises should we give our dogs? How long and strenuous should the walks be? And, what about activities that engage their brains? I guess the answer is: it depends. It depends on the dog and its energy level, the age and physical condition. When it comes to mental stimulation, I use my dogs (and my client's dogs and fosters when they stay with me) demeanor to gauge when I have given them enough mental stimulation and physical activity.


You see, dogs don’t lie - they constantly are learning about us and our funny ways, their environment and how they can have their needs met.  Depending on my schedule for that day determines what  activities I plan for the dogs. Most days we take a walk in the morning  – as it gets hotter and hotter, we go out really early. The dogs come home and they take a snooze  - I go to work :(. Midday they get a Kong with something yummy in there. Lately the "yummy" has been a small block tripe, yeah I know, remember yummy from the point of view of the dogs… it is terrific to help with any stomach upset and assists in digestion.
However, since tripe comes raw, make sure you sanitize the Kongs (use your dishwasher) and wash your hands after handling.