Slice of Life is inspired by the desire and challenge of living our lives in the moment. Days go by, weeks go by, years... but we can still choose over and over again to look at our own lives in small installments. These installments (or slices of life) can be walks taken in the hills, naps or a glass of Rioja. For me, what makes my slices super meaningful is being able to share with others the moments of my day with dogs in play, training or napping where we're all piled up on the bed.

My slices of life are full of events and experiences that are meaningful to me. As a former professional photographer, I still “see” so many pictures (or vignettes) as I interact with my dogs and the world around me on a daily basis. Most of the time I am not capturing these moments with a camera anymore. Instead, I am just showing up... I must say, that I do miss having a register of events outside of my head so that at my leisure I can relish a past moment as I am transported by a visual or written recollection of days gone by.

With the immediacy of all things digital, perhaps I can have my cake and eat it too. I can continue to do my work as a dog trainer and also register here and there moments of living a life in the company of dogs. I hope you will occasionally take a peek, and that my slices of life transport you in a glee of YOUR own!

Monday, August 26, 2013

Appeal to the masses

One of my clients emailed me wanting to know if I have seen or used the “technique” in the picture (see below) to keep [a] dog under control and if so he wanted to know what I thought about it.

He and his wife had attended a crowed art fair and saw many pet guardians using the technique on their dogs. Here was my response: “I have not seen the technique below or used it. Nothing "wrong" with the harness but I am not crazy about having the lead under the dog's belly… How uncomfortable that must be! No wonder the dog remains still (and the person can control the dog better).

The other reason why I don't like this is because even though some dogs might not mind it, others might find it quite aversive and now the dog is stressed and potentially creating negative associations with people around, other dogs or whatever is going on in the environment...

In my mind, this technique is a good example of appeal to the masses: it spreads around because people see other people doing it and because of that it sort of becomes "acceptable."

Unfortunately, not too many people take a second look and think about the implications for the dog as you are. In my book, this type of restrain is not right or appropriate. If someone needs to keep the dog closer to them as to preventing the dog from interacting with other dogs, etc. then a shorter leash - versus a six foot and holding the dog tightly is the way to go. There is always a clicker and treats (or other reinforcements) to have the dog focus on the owner and not in the environment."


After our interaction I got to thinking: why is that we are always trying to control our dogs? I get that sometimes it is necessary to do so for their own safety, safety of others or because the law requires that we do so. However, aren’t we taking this a bit too far?

As with any training technique or advice, we must get into the habit of thinking about the pros and cons of the advice or the technique; instead of just responding by inertia. As I mentioned to my client, not one size fits all.

Every dog is an individual and every situation must be assessed individually as well. Unfortunately, many a times our solution to a problem or situation, for example -restraining a dog, does not take into consideration the consequences for the animal.

I know, I know, we are all super busy, we are tired and what is worse, we have been conditioned to expect instant results with the least amount of effort.

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